The struggle I’m having right now

In the summer, I wrote about how I cut sugar out of my diet and lost a few pounds.

I dropped to 118 from 122 or 123 pounds, what I’ve weighed for the past few years. It was, I hate to admit, fantastic. I had this new marathon leanness. My abs were a bit more chiseled and my cheekbones stood out a little more. Damn, I looked good.

But then stress settled in and I started binging on scones and mint chocolate Milano cookies, and I gained that weight back. I hate to admit that I feel gross and like I failed.

This is my struggle right now.

It’s tough because I am healthy. But I can see those stupid few pounds in my cheeks and I can feel it in my waist when I bend over and in the fit on my jeans. I hate it because I am not anywhere near to being overweight or looking bad or being unfit.

After three weeks off running, I started last week running easy 3-milers and didn’t feel the least bit winded or out of shape. It was like picking up where I left off, only a little more fresh.

And I feel a thickness in my waist and puffiness in my cheeks. Of all the things to worry about in the universe, this is what I keep coming back to? This is what is plaguing my mind?

I’m admitting this to whoever reads my blog because I want to be honest and recognize these struggles. This is life. My marathon PR may be faster than many runners’ and I may still have abs a lot of people would like but I don’t like what I look like right now: soft. It’s shallow and stupid and I cannot escape it. The positive self-talk and telling myself it doesn’t matter because that it’s the off season for racing and I’ll be back at it and lean soon enough doesn’t seem to make a difference.

This is where I am right now.

I know, quite honestly, I’ll get back down to a racing weight and fitness when I need it. The buildup to that starts right now. In fact, I’m going to go do some yoga when I get done furiously typing this post.

I’m also going to cut out sugar (again) from now on except on a few fun occasions like Christmas. Because it is worth making some delicious chocolate memories.

So here it is. It ain’t pretty. It ain’t fun. But it’s real.


2 thoughts on “The struggle I’m having right now

    1. I know intellectually it’s not a bad thing. I know the best athletes in the world indulge and gain weight. But knowing it and feeling ok with myself are two different things, especially since that marathon leanness was something I had been trying to get for years.


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